Empty Nest Magazine
The Issue: ‘Tis the Season
Okay, so they’re now in college (or beyond), and you’ve helped them get there. I’ve taken an in-depth look at the parental role my husband and I assumed in this process, in “Emptying the Nest: Helping to Make Your Child’s College and Career Dreams Come True.” New contributor Jean S. Barto recounts jotting down tips for her college-bound granddaughter and then self-publishing her gem of a book in “What Are You Bringing to College? A Guide for Girls (and Boys!).”
And, yes, it’s fall, and we empty nesters are doing wonderful things pertinent to the season. Aptara Inc.’s Director of Publishing Services Carol Field just returned from nearly a year in Delhi, India, teaching copy editing. She recounts her madcap adventures in “The Empty Nesting Lifestyle: Living and Working in India.” Liz Milner portrays a Virginia empty nester who turned her love of running into a Thanksgiving fund-raiser for the homeless in “Real People Empty Nesting: On the Run with Jill Landsman.”
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Coming soon: a Mission Statement and Comments Feature!
Fall Back, Spring Ahead?
First, My New Office Is Done, And God, How I Love It! But you’ll have to wait for pix until winter, when I’ll have it completely decorated. (Um, is anything ever completely done?) Husband Gary, the hero with the paintbrush, deserves kudos for endless hours of scraping and caulking this 1903 room that I’m sure was painted and plastered every other year since then (except the 20 odd years we’ve lived here). It’s a blessed rebirth that now provides me with a beautiful space in which to work: I have moved from Independence Day to Thanksgiving Day!
In October, Gary and I attended the U.S. Sailboat Show in Annapolis, MD. A first for us, and we had an agenda: to get a good deal on a charter to the BVIs to celebrate our 30th wedding anniversary next year. If you’ve been following along, we’ve been working hard on the Chesapeake these past few years to develop our sailing resume, and next June we will bring our efforts to fruition. Yeah, we’re crazy, this economy being what it is and both of us poised to lose our day jobs at any minute. But hey, what are the empty nesting years for, if not to thumb our noses at fear? Anyway, Annapolis, the quintessential sailor’s town, makes the perfect backdrop for all things nautical, and Pusser’s “Painkiller” cocktails paired with island music on a rooftop deck overlooking the glorious web of boats, docks, and exhibits enhanced the experience. Regardless of your reason for going, it was amazing. By the way, mission accomplished. By the time we left, we had booked with Sunsail for June 2010. Knowing that, the coming long dark winter should lose its sting. Score one for fall.
Later in October, during Gary’s solo trip to California to spend a few days with older daughter Amie and husband Todd, I made my own plans. Why be home alone for five days when I could plan an adventure? So, I spent Friday evening with younger daughter Sarah in NYC, then old friend Clare and I met midway in Tarrytown, NY, for a two-day tour of Sleepy Hollow on, you guessed it, Halloween! More in the winter issue on whether we met the headless horseman. (Clare’s idea, and what a good one.)
Lately, I’ve also been thinking about politics: how it works and how divisive its become, and what can be done to improve relations between parties. So, in September, while attending a fund-raising picnic, I was asked (and I agreed) to take up a position with a new local group. With our first election behind us, I can say it’s been a real learning experience. I’ve met a lot of nice people (on both sides) and I'm looking forward to doing more to bridge the divide at the local level.
A few weeks ago, I again attended the Montgomery County Community College Writer’s Conference. (See “Writing: Answer to Midlife Crisis?” in the winter issue.) Gary and I hosted old publishing friend Jim Porterfield (my first boss!), who also attended, I met acquaintances from conferences past (two of them now writers for Empty Nest), and I picked up a few new tips (and friends!). The experience at Montco is always a good one…
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Robin C. Bonner
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